A Long Overdue Update! (My Writing & My Life)

A week ago, I got the sweetest email out of the blue from one of my blog followers.  Honestly, it's been so long since I've blogged, I was surprised anyone still followed me!  The thing that really stood out to me in the email was that the follower had been praying for me all this time, + you have no idea how much I needed to hear that.

let me recap these past 12 months

As some of you know, I was pregnant in 2018, + lost the baby at 16 weeks - a little boy that we named October Phoenix.  Certainly part of the reason I haven't blogged much is because I had to keep my head down + just keep going, working on my writing, raising Filigree + Wolfgang, finding the places to plant my loss so it could grow into endurance. 

Now I'm pregnant again, just one week shy of when October died, + I'm dealing with the roiling stress of worrying that this baby, too, won't make it.  At 6 weeks I suffered a subchorionic hemorrhage + spent the following month on rest, coping with the mental strain + praying until my body hurt. 

i've barely written anything since 6 weeks

I completed my first draft of Adamantine around the turn of the year, + began writing one of the earliest Plenilunar novels, Ampersand.  But since the hemorrhage, I've been mentally worn out.  I know lots of people say that you should write a little every day, but I have never found that practical.  There is more to life than writing, + we're not machines; sometimes our energies are completely redirected into other channels.  If there is one thing I have learned over the years with my life + my writing, it's that sometimes they can coexist, but sometimes the season for one diminishes + will come back again in due time  No, I never know when that time will be, but I know it will come.

still yours, if somewhat battered,
xoxo, jenny

The Virtues of the Author-Editor Friendship

I'M A WRITER.  As are you, probably.  But even though I've published, I still feel clueless about how to go about the publishing process.  
thankfully, i'm also good friends with an editor
After she shared the article "The 7 Deadly Sins of Novelists (According to Editors)," concerning the author-editor relationship from the editor's point of view, I decided to add my two cents on the issue from the author's point of view.


As soon as you set out to employ an editor, you're recognizing that your job isn't perfect.  For anyone of a perfectionist bent of mind, this is personally horrifying (i know, i know, that's me), but this first step is key to getting your manuscript where you want it to be: published.

Relatable: as the writer, I get so entrenched in my w.i.p. that I often lose sight of things I've already written, questions I've already raised that need answering, holes that need filling, etc.  This is natural; the writer's brain is supah-busy running full-steam ahead.  Another pair of eyes (i.e. the editor) can spot these + bring them to my attention.

Editors are human, too: they probably know that you're going to be feeling scared handing your manuscript to them to (as it seems to you) tear apart.  If you're already tough as nails + don't mind this process, that's awesome! (i wish i was you!)  But for most of us, it's helpful to be honest about how we're feeling.  An editor will be gentle (while still doing her job) with a tender writer.  Tougher clients can handle their editors' more candid remarks.  Be open.  Compassion is out there.

The editor's job isn't to slash your manuscript to shreds.  The editor's job isn't to hurt you personally.  The editor's job is to provide the professional services most writers are not trained in, to inspect, refine, + prepare a manuscript for publication.  You have the job as the writer, she has the job as the editor.  Recognizing that you are both playing different roles on the same team is vital to getting your book ready to publish.

When publishing Plenilune, I gave a small section to a potential editor under contract so I could see if I was a good fit for that editor.  While the advice I received on the section was useful, in the end I felt my vision for the book + the editor's were not compatible.  Since I had contracted for only a trial section, I was able to fulfill the contract requirements + look for a new editor.

Be teachable:  While you are the writer, there's still lots of room for error in the writing process, + the editor is there to help you take note of those mistakes.
Be loyal to your novel:  While you're bound to make mistakes, you are the author, + that means your vision is top priority.  Make sure you + your editor share the same recognition of the spirit of your novel so you can work together to polish it until it shines just the way you want it to.
Be an adult:  Fulfill your contracts, don't take revisions personally, + definitely don't make life horrible for your editor; she's here to help you, not fight you.  

The author-editor relationship is often like two dogs trying to sniff each other's butts (which is weird + gross) but snarling + distrusting each other in the process so that no one gets anywhere but in a circle.  It doesn't have to be that way.  Next time you want to hate editors because you're afraid of them, think of dogs circling butts.  That should do the trick.

remember: you're not perfect!
+ that's okay!
xoxo, jenny