Art & Beauty

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In case anyone anywhere was wondering, Yes, I am still alive.  I started out trying to squeeze internet time in during my daughter's naps, maybe a little while my husband was holding her.  That lasted - gee, I don't know how long that lasted.  (Does anyone say "gee" anymore, or is it just me now?)  My husband fixed up an Instagram account for me while I was sitting on the table for my last pregnancy exam, and while I got off to a slow start with it, I eventually found it to be an excellent way to share my life with my friends and avoid everything about Facebook that makes me want to claw my eyeballs out some days.  I got the Pinterest app on my phone.  I even have Facebook on there if I absolutely need it (I usually don't).  Within a short amount of time, "online" became irrelevant.

I know, right?  Don't I care about you any more?  Don't I want to keep fighting to eek out time to sit gazing vapidly at the computer's wide-screen internet instead of reading a book or playing with my baby?
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This is me, adjusting to my new life.  And I absolutely do not want to make it sound as though I am compromising, because so many people casually hate on pregnancy and child-rearing, and for anyone who is interested in either, I don't want to add to that negative atmosphere.  It's not negative.  It's not easy, I'll give you that - some days it is flat out grueling, some days (let's be honest) I wake up in the morning ready to cry before the day has started because it's going to be just like the one before, and the one before was hard.  But still, you adjust, things take on or lose priority - like the internet, basically falling off the bottom of the chart, my daughter at the top.  I will admit that maintaining my identity feels hard some days, because I am 1000% taking care of my baby's needs, and even when I am drop-dead exhausted with a tension headache the weight of Christian's burden hauling down my back, I take her in my arms to make sure her needs are met, regardless of my own.

But part of the adjusting and rearrangement of priorities has been (to use that dreadful Christianese phrase) to adapt to a different season of life.  The internet has lost much of its vapid, time-consuming interest (bleh), I spend less time writing (horror of horrors), and more time reading and moving about. For whatever reason, not only does my daughter need to be on the move and mobile to be soothed (if that were only the case, I could put her in a swing), she prefers to be held in order to fall asleep.  This is very flattering, of course, but also extremely exhausting.  So I walk.  A lot.  I carry her in a wrap, and if she is not completely out when I go to sit down, she will rouse and cry.  She is here to make sure Maman never gets diabetes.

This, and nursing, gives me the opportunity to spend more time reading.  I've never been good at equally dividing my time between reading and writing: I'm always focusing on one more than the other.  Right now, I'm focusing on reading.  I finished an excellent treatise on the composition of poetry by Robert Hillyer, bought and worked halfway through My Antonia (having seen Chloe and Carmel enjoy it so much), and picked up Art and Beauty in the Middle Ages and The Name of the Rose, both by Umberto Eco.  Most of My Antonia was read on a particularly bad day: I walked almost all of it with my daughter, and read as I walked, so while I thoroughly enjoyed what I read, I rather gorged myself and have backed off, spending a little more time reading Art and Beauty.  The latter I am enjoying more than I thought I would: it is what feels like a flawless translation from the original Italian, concerning the medieval view of aesthetics.  Sounds dull?  It's not.  It is a book which beautifully answers for so many of my readers why my novel Plenilune is so rich and lavishly coloured.  I picked up The Name of the Rose (a fiction by Eco) because I was eager to read more of this author, and I feel that once I have finished Art and Beauty, it will shed more light of understanding on the uniquely styled novel of The Name of the Rose.  Hand in hand with that, even though I will not grasp all of the author's deep intentions in his monastic mystery, I am thrilled to discover another writer who is not afraid to bring all his (to the outside reader) eclectic, didactic prose to bear on his story and not cater to the public's mainstream tastes.

It may not make us popular, but at least we feel we have something worth sharing.

5 ripostes:

  1. This post made me laugh out loud, swell with sympathy, and curl up with awe (and a twinge of envy).
    Keep up the good work, Maman. :)
    Blessings to you and yours,
    Esther

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  2. Sometimes Internet breaks can be really good because the Internet can get so exhausting and it's tough staring at a screen all the time. I totally get the feeling of wanting to cry before the day has even started because right now I am so stressed with school and I have so many decisions to make. It's probably not as busy as actually having to take care of a baby, but still a little stressful.

    My dad says "gee" sometimes. :)

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  3. It's not just you—I even say "gee whiz" on occasion. :)

    Blogging is hard enough with just a little old manuscript-in-progress for competition, so I can definitely understand how it falls by the wayside with a baby and Real Life keeping you busy. :) Lately it seems like the only way I can keep up with what my blogging friends are doing is to haunt Instagram (I don't have an account because I don't even own an unintelligent cell phone, so I just hover invisibly). You china dishes, incidentally, are so pretty. And your little girl is adorable.

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  4. That should be your china dishes. Bother the typos.

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  5. I have to admit that I love your Instagram posts. I like seeing dailies of you and Filigree and breakfast. All good things, all good things. And hurrah for more reading time. It is a demmed tedious thing to balance, isn't it?

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